Notes from January 7, 2018 All-Fellowship Meeting
with Actions Taken Since That Meeting
Atmosphere (comments from
participants of Jan. 7th meeting):
Remarkable congregation
Large number of participants (today)
UU is filled with good, welcoming people
Proud of what has been accomplished
UU known and respected in the greater community
Unique organization and great people
Appreciation to the creation of this community
Division creates anxiety
Unity creates expansiveness
Negative feelings between some leaders and some members
Concerns about communication
As a new member, discord is felt and heard
Shocked by discord
Actions taken since January 7th
meeting:
á Much open, effective communication with good listening has been taking
place between the board, past chairs, and Committee on Shared Ministries (COSM)
á COSM and others have been meeting with individuals feeling anxious
and/or upset about the challenges and changes facing UUFM
á Board members have made phone calls to all active members and friends to
ensure they knew about the February 18th meeting and to check to see
if they have questions of the board
á Ad hoc committee made up of individuals representing the UUFM founders,
past chairs, board, and COSM met to create a proposal for the best use of
TracyÕs remaining time with UUFM
á Planning committee formed to create todayÕs agenda that was made up of
individuals representing the board, COSM, past chairs, and UUFM founders
á Wonderful, dynamic, well attended, simplified service last Sunday
Community Interaction – Structure
(comments from participants of Jan. 7th meeting):
Regular scheduled gatherings (like this one)
Want more Fellowship-wide meetings
Lack of opportunity for an authentic relationship with the
UUFM community
More activities that bring people together
All events needs to be posted in one location - webpage
Are we hearing from quiet members?
Disconnect between members & board &/or governance
Retreats
Listen to stories, life experiences of older members
Communication
Need board and minister to survey community and lead the
community in creating desired groups
More willingness to be part of simplified services
Once a month potluck where committees meet
Need leadership that is listening and honoring and
actively seeking out input from community
Need to know what groups specifically do
Concern about looking at previous meeting minutes
Need for more transparency
Need for solutions for communication
Define communication and decision making processes
How do we choose social justice issue?
Need to know what is happening with UU
Emails are linked to webpage and copied to webmaster
Concern about trying to understand contract length and
communication regarding the contract
First or third Sunday committees share to the fellowship
Concern about communication and honesty. A lot of misleading information. Need to be respected
(Tracy)
Actions taken since January 7th
meeting:
á Held ÒSoup and Paint NightÓ with
over 35 attendees
á Held Super Bowl party with over
20 attendees
á Board contacted folks
individually regarding todayÕs meeting
á Presentation by Social Justice
committee arranged for today
á Working on getting more
information on events on the website
á Created a master list of who is
doing what at UUFM (available today)
á Purchased a new hearing
assistance system (thanks to anonymous donors) to help those who have a hard
time hearing during the services
á Over 30 people attended last
SundayÕs simplified service
á Another all-Fellowship meeting
will be held on March 18th after the service to review draft budget
for 2018-19
á UUFM board members, COSM, Past
Chairs and others working very hard to have open, honest communication. Feeling
very successful!
á The TAO youth raised enough funds
to rent two yurts for a retreat in May
á Details will be shared with the
Fellowship regarding TracyÕs plans for her remaining work with UUFM and the
timeline once they are finalized. The board meets with Tracy next week
regarding this
á Board reminded and will continue
to remind everyone that their meetings are always open to everyone
á Meeting minutes from the board
meetings are now on the website through December 2016
What We Do (comments from
participants of Jan. 7th meeting):
More focus on social justice
Need to revisit vision statement
Focus on animal social justice issues
Growth is a goal
We all may not want to grow
Lack of spirit and connection at church, more ritual in
ceremony
Need this community to grow; it all comes out of Sunday
We do not have a mission statement
Lack of community service focus as a fellowship
Actions taken since January 7th
meeting:
á Social Action committee
presenting today so everyone will learn about more opportunities to participate
á Mission Statement committee will
look at the need to revisit vision statement and is working on the mission
statement. Progress report will be given today
á The focus of the board and other
committees at this time is not on growth but to grow stronger as a fellowship
and in our connections with the larger community
á Community service project set for
April 21st, Cozine Creek clean-up. Monthly
work with YCAP
á Donated $599 to Lutheran Family
Service Immigration program from the cash plate donations. (Donated $499 to
Yamhill County Head Start last quarter.)
RE + Families (comments from
participants of Jan. 7th meeting):
UUFM is welcoming to families
Prioritize the RE program
Working with TAO kids and activities with families brings
positive energy; Desire to have more people involved
Young families bring joy
Kids are excited about church
RE is important
Keep RE program strong
More spiritual connection for children and self
Joyful when children are joyful
Need to deepen our spiritual paths - adult RE
Actions taken since January 7th
meeting:
á Several people are exploring how
we can hold more Adult RE classes
á Adult RE Workshop Feb. 25 in Corvallis –
Carpool available!
á RE Committee continues to work
hard!
á Monthly intergenerational events
continuing to be held
á TAO group is growing!
Fellowship Structure (comments from
participants of Jan. 7th meeting):
Need committee to help us grow
Concern that UU is not sustainable
Budget
Short-term and long-term planning
Consensus model needs added to procedures & bylaws
Being on the board is a big commitment; volunteers
needed
Define communication and decision making processes (also
under communication)
We have a minister who helps our spirituality and our
church and development
Concern about trying to understand contract length and
communication regarding (also under communication)
Actions taken since January 7th
meeting:
á Filled three vacancies on the
board, as well as three officer positions
á Added new COSM members to
strengthen that committee
á Made the budget a topic for this
meeting to gather the wisdom of the fellowship
Misc. (comments from participants
of Jan. 7th meeting):
W-4s and I-9s (get them in to Meghan)
Discover new place as children grow
older and move on
Found this community and when new
people return (concern about visitors not returning)
Invitation to friends is positive